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@Gaskarth4life i really hate people like that. It's like she completely forgot that i even was struggling with things (self harm/depression) and instead it was all about her. I don't talk about it much because i dont like forcing my problems on other people because i know that everyone has problems, but why can i talk to someone every once in awhile? Now im too scared to tell anyone in real life because i dont know what they'll do about it, or if they'll just leave me.
@emilygrace0516
That's just like my friend that's an only child, she always has to have all the attention on her. I told her that I was having panic/anxiety attacks, and then the next week she was complaining and telling everyone that she has panic and anxiety attacks. I mean really it's one thing to draw attention to your self and it's another to start pretending that your friends problems are your own. She just didn't want me to have the attention on me in my small group of friends for a day. It always has to be about her.
@Gaskarth4life
this friend then went on to start self harming herself and only talk to me to complain about her life and she would even send pictures after she cut. Like excuse me? No. Its not only you who has problems. Does she even get what triggering is? Then she dumped me (after 13 years) for her boyfriend and the one time she talked to me in 3 months was to tell me how shitty her life was. That doesn't fly with me. Ugh people are dumb
@emilygrace0516
wow what a great friend.. NOT. my ex told me that he doesn't want to deal with me when i'm like that.
@Gaskarth4life
luckily my parents havent found out but i had a friend who found out and she told me "one day you'll realize how stupid this is" like wow thanks for the help
@emilygrace0516
right!! My mom cornered me when she found out about it. I was not a happy child . And the only reason she found out was because my dad was going through my shit and he found some stuff.
@Gaskarth4life
i feel the same way. I hate when people try to force conversation about my self harm onto me because it just makes me stressed out and want to do it more
@emilygrace0516
you're right it really does make everything that much worse. We don't want to talk about our problems with our parents or anyone else, they wouldn't understnd
no. nononononononono why? why!!??!!
3/22/14